These podcasts are very good and unbelievably helpful… why is something that should be so natural so HARD? Evan tells you things “like it is” and helps you see through your own smokescreens. I’m definitely going to keep listening!
Ok I’ve now binged about 4 years’ worth of episodes… Evan is becoming like Benjamin Button as I’ve gone back in time… he’s getting younger, his kids are getting younger, his time in the field is shortening… but every episode has some gem, along with his innate kindness, witticisms, metaphors, etc. I just love it when his answer is to dump a guy who’s not treating you right. So refreshing!!
I find Evan a bit like my yearly mammogram and colonoscopy! They aren’t always comfortable but the results are important and often differ from what I see in self exams! Evan has made me look at my own self image, biases and both positive and negative personality traits in a new way. His advice, for me, has been priceless and helped me in much more than just my dating life. You have to know yourself and your worth and he does a tremendous job of enabling you to do that FIRST, before jumping into the dating pool yet again. Also, the other women I have met in his coaching group have been amazing, insightful and are becoming wonderful friends-and finding someone with a similar story to connect with is just good for my soul. At times, I have wanted to maybe punch Evan in the face for his candor which is why I really enjoyed this new podcast. As a coach, Evan will often look at things in a couple of different ways and even admit that he ‘might’ be wrong occasionally. I just don’t know if any other coaches who would make that a title of a podcast and admit it publicly! Things like this make me appreciate Evan, and it shows the vulnerability that he teaches us that we need to share.
I have been listening to Evan’s podcasts for a year now and I always find myself ending the episode with a new insight or an idea on my approach with dating or an internal work that I need to do to get better results. Thanks so much Evan for your content! ✨
I love listening to EMK! He’s a really cool guy with lots of wisdom. It’s definitely one of my favorite podcasts. I’m a paid Substack subscriber now too and it’s worth every penny!
I’m a Love U graduate as of spring 2023, and that was hands down one of the best investments I’ve made in my love life. I continue to enjoy listening to this podcast and subscribe to Evan’s Lovesplaining on Substack because I find his advice so valuable. Evan is going to tell you how most men think, regardless of whether that’s something you like. I’m currently in a great relationship with someone I wouldn’t have considered dating before Love U. If this one doesn’t work out long term, I will absolutely be following Evan’s advice to find another partner, as it’s so effective given the reality of dating nowadays.
I have been following Evan for some time now and the podcast summarizes his insights on dating for women in an easy way to understand and apply. 10/10, I do recommend!
I am a 74 year old widow who is tired of being alone and contemplating trying on-line dating. I have watched a number of dating coach podcasts and have found Evan Marc Katz’s to be the most articulate and logical. His numerous postings are filled with common sense advice and a generous dose of encouragement.
Evan gives insights into relationships in ways you might not think of. I’ve learned many different ways to think about being in a relationship with the right person
I highly recommend Evan Marc Katz’ podcasts and his eBook Why He Disappeared. You can be proactive about your dating life, read his eBook and listen to his podcasts before making any (major) dating mistakes or having men disappear on you. His advice is more traditional, but makes a lot of sense.
I’ve been listening to Evan for a while and reading his blog even longer. If you’re looking for a solid relationship and are having trouble finding it or keeping it, Evan has you covered. Many times what he says isn’t easy to hear, but it’s what you need if you’re still looking. Even for those who are in relationships, you know that there are still issues and problems that happen and you may need some advice. Evan has you covered here too. I highly recommend Evan’s podcasts and Love U blogs as there is something you can learn about relationships in them.
I’ve been a long-time raving fan of Evan Marc Katz. He gives the most practical, down to earth advice on dating of anyone I know! He speaks kindly and compassionately as we all navigate the new world of dating. Follow him if you want to learn how to date with confidence!
I’ve been following Evan for a while, and have learned countless tips that have made me a better person! No doubt, Happiness is an inside job. Evan’s approach with keen observations, brutal honesty, wit and wisdom have brought me so much clarity, motivation and growth at my own pace. Give Evan a try!!! He is a talented eye and heart opener who knows how to encourage smiles around every corner…
Now it seems like he’s starting to defend and normalize some of men’s behavior (verses explaining it) in recent episodes and content. It’s also seems like a sales grab recently, like every young dating coach on Instagram. The older episodes are better and the content still holds today. The dating industry in the 2020s is so sketchy!
I binge listen to this podcast. It’s full of such great actionable advice and perspectives on dating and relationships. I’m learning a lot from it and I think it’s changed the course of my dating in a very positive way. Thank you, Evan! Highly recommend.
I used to like this show, but I’m not wasting my time any longer on a short tease to become a paid subscriber. I understand wanting to push your subscription but posting a new episode only for it to contain zero information is a waste of my time.
I used to LOVE this podcast! Listened every single day and to every episode… but now they are “just a tease” episodes and you need to be some sort of paid listener on one of this platforms to hear anything. So the listening will start with something good and then he’ll say “I hate to be just a tease but go become a subscriber if you want to hear more”— I get that it’s a smart technique for him to make more moola, however, now there are not really any decent episodes to listen to at all… so maybe don’t have it on a free podcast streaming service because it’s just frustrating to listeners.
I’m definitely disappointed :(
I think of Evan Marc Katz as “Uncle Evan,” a trusted man who has my best intentions at heart and gives me wise and effective advice. I like how he emphasizes that he doesn’t judge us when we make mistakes or missteps, he simply looks at dating and gives advice from the lens of “is this effective to get the result or better option?” His advice gives us the power! I love thinking that I can be the one in control of my destiny and in the seat of CEO of my love life. He gives me so much confidence, thanks Evan!
Evan gives very straightforward, practical dating and relationship advice. His podcasts definitely help listeners make better dating decisions if they apply his recommendations.
Hey Evan, have you ever expressed previously unspoken apologies this time of year, particularly within a relationship? Or asked if there any anything you may have done which caused offense/hardship? If so, do you think it’s a worthwhile practice for relationships? Thanks 😊
As always, Evan is right on the mark about how we (women, men, everyone) can easily overlook each others humanity. Thanks for the reminder, Evan, that it “isn’t easy being green”. Especially when looking for lasting love. ❤️
I recently discovered this podcast. Evan is fantastic. I have learned so much and I find he’s got a reference for everything. I am grateful that he produces the show. When my daughter starts dating I am going to have her listen to these too!
Finding this podcast to be irrelevant. Really don’t wNt to hear him fill space about his marriage. Going to tune out pretty soon if this continues. Has he run out of things to say?
Thank you for bringing your perspective and really getting into the mind of a smart, successful woman. The podcast has brought me peace and hope, and has taught me that I have control over my love life. Thank you
I've worked with Evan during the initial LoveU program, and have followed him for years prior. The podcasts are still very informative and new and I enjoy the refresher course. Love getting a man's perspective on love and relationships.
Evan is such a wealth of fantastic information. He gives a very healthy realistic perspective to keep women hopeful yet grounded in their search for and success in a wonderful relationship. I am very grateful for his insights and advice. I wish there were an equivalent for men to help them, understand how to be the best partner they could be in a relationship…. And for them to understand our relationship from a woman’s perspective.
Evan has a TREASURE of wisdom of practical guidance with his pyramid, podcast, and blogs! In less than 2 hours of focused time with his resources, I got so much insight on the approach of dating and being the CEO, 2 key questions, and pyramid/stages of relationships! SO good!
I hope anyone with a trauma history who is listening to this doesn’t shame themself for not being able to follow the advice of handing trust over immediately. While you say “men can’t pay for the sins of other men,” it’s also vitally important for women to learn how to discern between safe vs unsafe dating situations. In order to do that, we cannot hand trust over immediately for free. Advising us to do so is dangerous, disingenuous, and perpetuates the learned habit of not listening to our instincts. I’m not flatly disagreeing with everything and I am open to many aspects of your advice, but I have push back on that piece. I do like and appreciate a lot of what you are saying, so please refrain from interpreting this as man hating or whatever.
Evan Marc Katz provides great advice. His content is invaluable to any woman dating and he is very supportive of women in general. The advice is realistic and helps women communicate in a more effective way so that they can find healthy supportive relationships
Evan always makes me smile because he is always kind, smart, and to the point. When someone makes you smile, you can be open to listening and understanding. He unlocks the mysteries of men to me in a non-threatening and gentle way so I feel safe and secure. Thank you, Evan for your simplicity, clarity and kindness in the sharing to us of your wisdom!
Evan provides the answers I’ve been seeking for years. Such a relief. No therapist or author covers these practical topics with as much sincerity, intelligence, and common sense. Evans podcasts are just the peek behind the man curtain that help me navigate this tricky dating terrain with confidence.
Great podcast, great host, BUT, I absolutely do not appreciate the way he talks about his wife everytime he talks about their marriage. I know he is teying to say life does not always throw a person in front of you who checks all the boxes you thought were important, but still dude, thats now the right way to bring something like this up. How would you feel if your wife had a pod in which she kept saying ‘I had to fight through the feelings when I was considering Evan who was so much younger and potentially immature. Someone who was obsessed with a university degree or highly educated women. I had to find my peace with the fact that it is probably because of immaturity and insecurity that he wanted to bad to date people who were graduated from fancy colleges and who were super ambitious. But at the end of the day I’m glad I made the decision to marry him even though he did not check a single box I had. Haha’
Learn how to talk about someone you love and care about in a more empathic and gentle way , instead of destroying them first then say but I’m saying all this to say that I’m so glad she is my wife, and I chose her and didnt go with my usual ‘type’.
This is a right to the point podcast that gave me more understanding of why both men and women do the things they do when dating. I learned more in one hour than I have in 40 years.
I’ve been listening to back episodes of Love U for a couple of weeks now. Evan shares helpful and actionable insights you can use right away. Here’s one that really surprised me … I always believed I should send a thank you text after a man takes me out. I thought it was the polite thing to do and I’d be rude if I didn’t. Well, turns out this kind of “politeness point” can work against you. I even asked my brother what he thought. He said, “Evan’s right.” In another episode, Evan shared how to be more flirty. It’s been working great! Since listening to the podcast, I’ve actually started enjoying the whole dating app experience a lot more. And I’ve already met several great men! (I’m 58.)
Evan’s dating advice puts you in the drivers seat of your love life with common sense advice that helps put you on the path to the warm and loving relationship you’ve always deserved but never gotten before.
I am never disappointed when I tune in to Evan! He gives great insight into relationships and how to find what you are looking for. All in an easy-to-relate to kind of way. I recommend him to people all the time.
Thank you Evan for sharing your knowledge and insights. Growing up in a single parent household with my mother set me up to seeing her masculine mask and not knowing what many learn having a masculine figure in home on a daily basis. Unfortunately it was after a 14 year relationship broke apart I began to realize I was relating to my partner as if he was a woman and had no clue into understanding men. As much as I want to be seen and understood I know I must see and understand to offer the value a man cherishes having in his life. Thank you for all the free content and maybe I’ll try your programs sometime. Appreciate what your giving to us all.
I’ve been following and listening to Evan for years and his advice is solid. And this podcast is no different. Solid. Evan makes you feel as if you know him even if you don’t. He is my male virtual “bestie”. :-)
