All I can say is where was this about 4 years ago! I am sure it’s because we were going through our “wilderness” at the same time. The struggle I had with feeling so alone in my battle, the guilt and shame I had to overcome, and still overcome was immense. But God! I have become a new person, the old is gone and new has come through He and I alone, and I wouldn’t change it. I had lost me in my 25 year marriage, and had to put up boundaries to start over again. Through 2 years of psychologist, life coach, counselor, and marriage intensive, I have become the person that God always wanted for me. I am no longer married, and that was hard to let go of, someone that didn’t want to change, always was the victim, and of course blamed me for everything. These things are real ladies, and we don’t have to continue living this way without support and the ability to change. This podcast and Lysa’s new book coming works! I have walked through this, and I am on the other side walking with my God and joy in my heart. God is so good! And although it is hard in the middle of it, the pain and struggle is so real! God can take that, and make you new and whole if you will just let him. Thank you all three of you, I enjoy listening and learning, and for me also confirms that I wasn’t alone, and God was guiding my steps all along. And what a gift for people going through this, we will both keep sharing our stories!