You guys get it more dialed in every week! I love the open ended topics and conversations and the genuine feedback. I found myself laughing out loud in every episode. Definitely keep it coming, you’re both in your element and I thoroughly enjoy your podcast!
I’ve never been so excited to listen to a podcast. I look forward to the episode every Thursday like I did back in the day when you actually had to wait for the next episode of your favorite tv show to air. I really appreciate the honesty and vulnerability about real topics that almost anyone can relate to. I’ve followed John for years but I’m new to Shaun’s perspectives and I feel like I’ve learned so much about myself as a newly single person since finding this pod. Keep ‘em coming. The anticipation is HOT.
I would say I’m a HUGE fan but in actuality I’m an ok sized fan. But seriously, I enjoy this show immensely. I’ve been a fan of these guys separately for years. I found John’s books post divorce and struggling to deal with an affair and I’ve found Shaun a tremendous resource as I jumped back into the dating pool. 10/10 recommend.
I love listening to these guys. They both have unique personalities that complement each other so well. They are hilarious, chill, insightful, and conscious, discussing topics that are relevant to most people going through life these days. Listening to the episodes feels both relaxing and uplifting. I really appreciate the laughs. I just love this duo 🤍
Thank you both for making this show, I’m so
Glad to hear you’ll continue making episodes. I really look forward to listening to the show and enjoy hearing two men talk about relationships.
I honestly cannot remember how I stumbled upon this podcast, but I am forever grateful for the faithful algorithm that popped these two into my world. If you’re a fan of Brene Brown, subscribe immediately! Lean in with curiosity, be open to feedback, and own your truths… oh, and let’s chat about what it’s really like to be a man. As a lady, I’m in love! Seriously, Shaun… John… I’m deeply invested in your lives now! 12 episodes?? We can do better! More like 12,000!
I enjoy the honest conversations between these two. As a queer woman I don’t hear men talk this way much, it’s refreshing and educational. I’d enjoy hearing more about non-monogamy from them, perhaps exploring some of the lessons and learning that can apply to any relationship style. Thanks!
This last episode on ED and bad friendships was my favorite so far. John and Shaun are getting into a good flow with their conversations. I really like how they are learning more about each other while sharing really sensitive topics that we can all learn from. They balance each other well. So fun and interesting!
Been listening since ep. 1 and it’s a delight to listen to this podcast and friendship develop. I live for John’s tenderness and often awkwardly endearing lack of pop culture knowledge. His ability to listen and take in critiques from Shaun is as impressive as his vulnerability. Looking forward to hearing Shaun open up a little more, I think sometimes he’s concentrating on keeping things moving a little more than the content. Nonetheless 10/10 would recommend. Keep it up guys!
I started listening to Shaun and John during my hour long road trips visiting family. The dialogue between the two guys is so enjoyable and easy to listen to. I appreciate hearing from their honest level, it’s not inflated and it is very earthy and granola. I also appreciate references to our parents’ parenting and its affect on our adult relationships. That’s something I’m working on with my therapist and appreciate your occasional references to it. Keep up the good work guys!
I’ve been following Shaun for a few years and John for not quite as long, but the two of them together on one podcast is a breathe of fresh air! As a divorced single mom who is about to turn 40 and is quite jaded and underwhelmed by dating post-divorce, these two are giving me hope that men CAN have the emotional maturity and self awareness to be in a healthy, balanced partnership, or at a bare minimum, not leave the entire emotional load on women. Shaun and John not only respect women but are willing to look inward to reflect on how they can be better partners and humans, while examining the “why” behind so many of our cultural norms. I’m hoping that more and more male followers are able to find them and hear what they have to say. Thank you both for having such raw and vulnerable conversations, raising the bar, and for bringing your unique perspectives to the table. Keep the episodes coming!
The Angry Therapist and The Love Drive walk into a podcast - and BOOM! As a result the world gets real life examples of authentic communication, transparent connection, and a couple of dudes doing their best to make this world a better place. Thank you, Shaun and John, for demonstrating what it means to be honest with ourselves and with others as we look inward, navigate relationships, and find our way in this crazy world. I loved both of your work before the We Can Do Better union, and continue to be an enthusiastic fan. Mahalo piha- from a grateful groupie. 🏝️🤲🥰 #cameforbothstayedforboth
Here’s why I love this podcast.
As an adolescent/young adult mental health practitioner I spend my days working with people the ages of 16-25. I am encountering a client base that when challenged on their actions and beliefs they can’t articulate WHY they would or wouldn’t continue on the same way. They simply aren’t able to process themselves through their own why, it’s often because someone told them to do it that way or that’s what’s accepted in their families or social circles not because they processed it and want it that way for themselves.
Your podcast not only tackles tough issues but to me more importantly gives the space when a “do better” topic arises to truly investigate WHY there is a need to do better. I think this was solidified for me in the “that’s what she said” conversation. John truly hadn’t processed the deeper implications of gender stereotypes/sexualization of behaviors and his tone changed from “that’s my only joke” to - “wow this doesn’t land anymore”. Not because Shaun told him to stop - but because Shaun shared with him his understanding of why. We don’t have enough examples of holding space to truly develop the why of our behaviors. We need to learn from each other how our conversations can hold space to decide what foundation our authentic selves land on through why dialogue.
You do this and more - it’s really truly beautiful to be gifted a set of headphones into these conversations.
Please continue on - it’s making my professional practice better and challenging own journey to be better as well!
Hi guys. The more you do the more I hope men will join the conversation. I think guys need to hear a positive emotional perspective and giving them examples of that is great. I am going to recommend your podcast to any guy I meet for even go out with on one date with from here on out. Hey dude, listen to this it might help you up your emotional EQ. Thanks for retiring that’s what she said. And I can easily leave something dirty but it will be a Cynthia sandwich.
I’m really enjoying this podcast and was glad to be introduced to John. Love his vibe. Sometimes I feel a bit bad for him because sometimes it seems Sean shoots him down more than necessary, or has a retort a little too often. 😐
As a female, I enjoy hearing two dudes discuss things that most males never discuss. I love how raw and authentic it is; it is a bit disorganized, but I think that is the beauty of an unscripted podcast. It gives me hope that men want to do better. Keep going. Don't stop at 12.
This podcast has the perfect amount of shock value and good information that it’s so fun to listen to. I am another who came for Shaun and stayed for John. I am not align with these two guys much, butI like having an open mind and that they remain open minded as well.
You two are killing it! I look forward to listening every single week. I wish there were more! To hear two men be so open and raw and real with REAL talk. Perfect amount of humor, positivity, feedback and rawness. You NEED to keep going! We NEED more than 12 episodes! 👏👏
New fave podcast! Didn’t know that I needed this. But after every episode I feel lighter and more assured, less negative about men overall. Excited to keep learning from you guys.
Thank you both!
I loved both of these guys before this podcast and I reallyyyy love this vulnerability. I feel it’s what the world needs to hear! The perfect imperfections, the holding each other accountable, the differences in style between the guys, and that they’re mature MEN talking about real life. Love love love! Listen now!
I love hearing the ways men think and talk to each other about topics that we're not used to hearing them talk about. Two very different men, learning about each other every day, asking and answering important questions. Thanks guys!
This podcast is a recent source of nectar in my life. I like that it’s casual and informal… two thoughtful men attempting to live examined lives and talking through the exploration of what is what. I love the consistent reframe from “should” to what is true to our insides and exploring where it comes from.
Very first review I’ve ever left for a podcast. Never miss an episode and look forward to a new one every week. I listen, laugh, question, contemplate and then do it all over again. Thanks to both of you for your honesty and authenticity. The world 100% needs more men like you. Thanks for being you. Mad love ❤️
It’s a weekly pleasure to listen in on Shaun and John’s budding love. We would all be better off if more men had access to this sort of friendship.
It’s truly special to hear two men openly talk about their feelings and vulnerabilities, but what makes this podcast even more intriguing is the way they communicate their preferences, share insecurities, and hold each other accountable to “do better.” Their dynamic is inspiring to witness. Each episode is full of fun surprises as their new friendship evolves alongside the podcast.
Expect plenty of sass, candor, courage, silliness, and fun in every episode of this budding bromance.
10/10
Hello guys! I usually don’t write reviews on social media, but I could not resist to rate your podcast. I’m dropping only 4 Stars since I’m leaving space for you to earn the 5 Stars once you get to your studio….Wishing you both the very best & keep up the great work 🤗!!! K.
Totally heart warming dialogue between these two. Genuine thoughtful and curious discussion. Some of the topics are pretty edgy but there is a level of innocence in the discussion that makes it fun and adorable. What a pair these two! Highly recommend. Great example for other men to look up to… this is the new masculinity. Both are hilarious and extremely emotionally intelligent.
Each week is full of unexpected enjoyment. Never know what you are going to discuss or what new segment you may include next. So far it’s been funny, educational, and eye opening. Can’t wait to see each new week as you learn to do better!
I have been following both of these podcasters separately for a few years. To see them come together and create content together is refreshing. I enjoy the honesty shared between these two about what it’s really like in the world for so many of us. It doesn’t feel curated, it’s just good content. If you can open up your mind and be willing to look at things differently, you become a much better person overall. These podcasters will help you do that very thing. Thank you Jon and Shawn. Peanut Butter and Chocolate! 🤣
I do not love podcasts. I generally listen to one or two episodes then resort back to music.
I have binged this in the last few days. And can’t wait for the next episode.
The banter between Shaun and John is lighthearted yet heartfelt. I love the honesty and the way they talk about the raw feelings. Shaun’s openness of his experiences is a breath of fresh air.
This is one I’ll keep listening to for the long haul.
Three of my favorite adjectives coming from two introspective, sensitive, thoughtful men. The care in which Shaun and John answer listener questions, reflect on their own experiences, and offer an evolved perspective keeps me coming back each week + hoping for more. Came for Shaun and stayed for you both. :)
I like it a lot. I feel like a “fly on the wall” listening to an intimate conversation between male friends that respect each other. Sort of like a privilege to witness. I feel like, as a woman, I have many male friends but the dynamic is somehow different between just guys. Also the cadence and tone of both your voices is very soothing. I’m on episode 6. Almost caught up.
I literally wait for Thursday mornings to come so I get to listen to this podcast that has quickly become my favorite! They make me laugh while I have breakfast and it just makes my day :) I love how their relationship is evolving and they are finding their flow. I love how casual it is and just easy to listen to. Thank you guys for showing up! Keep it coming! Would love two episodes per week ;)
I’ve been following Shaun’s content for a few years now and his advice and his other content has helped me a lot in my own dating life, and now with the addition of John’s perspective has been great. Listening to them discuss various topics with empathy, curiosity, and introspection, as well as hilarious banter, has warmed my heart and made me believe there’s good men out there.
I love seeing the growth of this podcast and the growth between the two of you together as a team. Both similar but also polar opposites and it works great! I love the awkwardness and honesty- it makes everything about the podcast real. You are both open to each other and each other views. Honestly, maybe you could do better, but I say roll with it…you are going to kill it! (Ps..you definitely should make a spin off of love line…it was great for its time). Keep up the good work!
I absolutely love listening to this podcast every week. There’s nothing off limits and so the insights & humor, reality & depth just spill out of their conversations so naturally. Shaun & John are a fantastic compliment to each other and I’m looking forward to being on the inside of the evolution of the podcast & their friendship!!
I laugh, I am entertained, I am prompted to think, and I come away with new info! So good! Love the banter between you two and the vibe. I find myself feeling sad when it’s over! Religiously listening weekly! Thanks for sharing with us, guys!
