I love your podcast . You both are the best . But, I have a question . What advice would you give a recently widowed person ( me ) . In regards to dating and sexual temptation. I was married at 17 was a virgin when I got married , stayed faithful in my marriage for 20 some years when my husband suddenly died leaving me widowed at 41 with two children. I know God , I’ve grown up in a relationship with God which is satisfying but I’ve never struggled with sexual temptation until I found myself in this circumstance. I’ve been widowed a year and a half , I miss all that I had with my spouse in regards to companionship and intimacy . Gone, suddenly overnight , completely single . But, still I have the same desire I had when I was married for intimacy , but can no longer fulfill that and be in alignment with God . I liken it to chocolate cake if you’ve never had it , you won’t miss it but if you’ve had it and you’re told suddenly you can no longer have it , what do you want ? Chocolate cake . So, I’m wanting to hear your best advice for me ? How would you handle this , if you were in my shoes? I’ve been raised in church all of my life , I truly love God and I just feel like it’s hard to be real with people sometimes and say “ I’m struggling with sexual desire and who wouldn’t be especially if you’ve lost someone you loved in a sudden moment .