While Brian is an incredibly gifted orator, he is incredibly mislead regarding a few theologies, namely the atonement. Jesus died in our place for our sins (Isaiah 53, 1 John 2:2, John 1:29, Romans 3:25, John 10:11, Romans 5:10, 1 Peter 2:24, Leviticus 17:11, Matthew 26:28, 2 Corinthians 5:21, etc.). Hebrews 9:22 “In fact, the law requires that nearly everything be cleansed with blood, and without the shedding of blood there is no forgiveness.”
The Father is not cruel by placing his wrath on Jesus. The Trinity is one and make decisions together. Revelation 13:8 speaks to this when it calls Jesus “the Lamb who was slain from the creation of the world.”
I hope Brian sees the error of his ways and turns back to the Lord.