July 5, 2026

The Patterns We Repeat: What Our Relationships Reveal About Ourselves

Why do so many of us find ourselves living the same story with different people?Why do painful relationship patterns continue long after we’ve left the original wounds behind?Join me for a powerful live conversation with healer, teacher, and author Ben Oofana, whose work bridges decades of study in Native American healing traditions, Taoist internal arts, meditation, and emotional transformation.Together, we’ll explore:• Why we unconsciously repeat familiar relationship patterns• How childhood adaptations become adult identities• Why awareness alone often isn’t enough to create lasting change• The connection between trauma, attachment, and emotional healing• What ancient healing traditions can teach us about becoming whole• How to stop performing survival and begin living from your authentic selfAt Notes From the Edge, we ask one question that changes everything:What did you perform in order to survive?If you’ve ever wondered why you keep repeating the same emotional cycles, this conversation is for you.Welcome to the Edge.www.lisalacy.comHow to Find Ben's Work:Main Websitebenoofana.comTeach Me to Meditateteachmetomeditate.comHeartache Hotlineheartachehotline.comBreakup First Aidbreakupfirstaid.comHeal My Heartachehealmyheartache.comYouTubehttps://www.youtube.com/@benoofanaInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/benoofana/ Notes from the Edge with Lisa LacyHuman conversations about trauma, identity, recovery, reinvention, relationships, leadership, and the lives we build after survival.  Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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