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April 16, 2026

The Science of Grief — Ep. 4: Why Grief Feels Physically Exhausting

Why grief feels physically exhausting (and what’s happening in your brain and body)Grief can feel confusing, disorienting, and at times even frightening.In this episode, I explain why grief can leave you physically exhausted, and what’s actually happening in your brain and body when this occurs.This is not a personal weakness. It is a biological process.Understanding this changes the question from “What’s wrong with me?” to “What is my body carrying?”In this episode, we explore:• Why grief is a full-body physiological process, not just an emotional one • What’s happening in the body (HPA axis activation, allostatic load, immune changes)• Why sleep becomes less restorative even when you rest• How ongoing prediction error and adaptation consume energy• One grounded way to begin supporting your energy during griefIf you’d like to go deeper:🌐 Explore my work:⁠https://sylviawolfer.com/⁠📩 Join my newsletter for weekly insights:⁠https://sylviawolfer.myflodesk.com/fkez3lwe4h⁠📱 Connect with me:Instagram:⁠https://www.instagram.com/_sylvia_wolfer_grief_support/⁠LinkedIn: ⁠https://www.linkedin.com/in/sylviawolfer/⁠grief and the brain, neuroscience of grief, grief symptoms, grief support, coping with grief, emotional regulation, grief healing, grief education, attachment and loss, nervous system griefDisclaimer: This podcast is intended for educational and informational purposes only and does not replace medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice. If you are struggling significantly with your mental health, please seek support from a qualified healthcare professional.

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